Deborah Copaken

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Deborah Copaken
BornDeborah Elizabeth Copaken
(1966-03-11) March 11, 1966 (age 55)
Boston, Massachusetts, U.S.
NationalityAmerican
Alma materHarvard University
SubjectArts and letters, photography
SpousePaul Kogan (1993–2018)
Children3

Deborah Elizabeth Copaken (born March 11, 1966) is an American author and photojournalist.[1]

Early life and education[]

Copaken was born in Boston, Massachusetts,[1] the daughter of Marjorie Ann (née Schwartz) and Richard Daniel Copaken. Her father was a White House Fellow and lawyer.[2][3] She grew up in Maryland, first in Adelphi, and then from 1970 in Potomac.[4] She has three siblings.[5] She graduated from Harvard University in 1988.

Career[]

Prior to beginning a writing career, Copaken was a war photographer from 1988 to 1992, and a television producer at ABC and NBC from 1992 to 1998.[4] For the former, she was based in Paris and Moscow, while shooting assignments on conflicts in Zimbabwe, Afghanistan, Romania, Pakistan, Israel, Soviet Union and other places.[6] She first worked as a producer at Day One in ABC News, where she received an Emmy, then in Dateline NBC.[7]

In 2001, she published a memoir of her experiences in war photojournalism, Shutterbabe. Her first novel Between Here and April was published in 2008 and won the November Elle Reader's Prize.[8] In 2009, she released a book of comic essays, Hell is Other Parents, some of which appeared in the New Yorker and The New York Times.[9][10]

Her second novel, The Red Book, published by Hyperion/VOICE in April 2012, was a New York Times bestseller. The book was long-listed for the 2013 Women's Prize for Fiction.[11] In 2016 and 2017, she released two nonfiction books, The ABCs of Adulthood and The ABCs of Parenthood, in collaboration with illustrator Randy Polumbo.[12][13]

She has written several articles for The New Yorker, The New York Times, Observer, The Atlantic, Business Insider, The Nation and others.[14]

She has performed and curated live storytelling for The Moth, Afterbirth, the Six Word Memoir series, Women of Letters, and Words and Music.[4] She has also ventured into screenwriting, and it was reported that she was adapting Shutterbabe as a TV series for NBC in 2014.[15] She was a consultant on Darren Star's Younger[16] and is currently a staff writer on his new show Emily in Paris.[17] She has been interviewed by several news program including The Today Show and Good Morning America.[18]

In 2013, Copaken wrote an essay for The Nation detailing sexism she has encountered and observed in her career.[19][20][21] In November 2017 in Oprah.com, she published a 3,500-word account of her supracervical hysterectomy, adenomyosis and trachelectomy, and her subsequent recovery in Nepal.[22] In July 2018 in The Atlantic, in an essay pertaining to Roe V. Wade, she wrote that three of her five pregnancies were unplanned and that she had undergone two abortions.[23]

In 2019, her New York Times Modern Love essay, "When Cupid is a Prying Journalist,[24]" was adapted[25] into Episode 2[26] of Amazon's Modern Love series, with Catherine Keener playing Copaken. She also collaborated[27] with Tommy Siegel of Jukebox the Ghost.[28]

Accounts of assault[]

In Slate.com, Copaken wrote that she was assaulted physically or sexually multiple times in her early twenties.[29] In The New York Times, she wrote that she endured a number of random assaults and muggings, including two robberies at gunpoint, by strangers during her senior year at Harvard University and afterward: "[S]ome were quite scary".[30][31] In March 2018 in The Atlantic, writing in second-person narrative, she accused The New York Observer editor Ken Kurson of sexually harassing her.[32]

Copaken has also recounted that she was date raped on the night before her graduation.[11] The next day she reported the incident to the university's health service, but was advised not to report her rape to police by her psychologist as the lengthy legal process might have affected her plans after graduation.[33][19] In September 2018 in The Atlantic, she wrote that exactly 30 years after the incident in Harvard, she wrote to her assailant to remind him of the incident, and within half an hour the assailant called and apologized to her.[31]

Personal life[]

She lived in Paris and Moscow before moving to New York City in 1992.[4] She became engaged to and married Paul Kogan in 1993.[34] They have three children: son Jacob (born 1995); daughter Sasha (born 1997); and son Leo (born 2006).[35] In 2018, she and Kogan divorced; as she wrote in The Atlantic, they did so without legal assistance, at a cost of $626.50.[36]

Works[]

  • Shutterbabe: Adventures in Love and War (2001) – memoir
  • Between Here and April (2008) – novel
  • Hell Is Other Parents: And Other Tales of Maternal Combustion (2009) – essay
  • The Red Book (2012) – novel
  • The ABCs of Adulthood: An Alphabet of Life Lessons (2016) – nonfiction, illustrations by Copaken and Randy Polumbo
  • The ABCs of Parenthood: An Alphabet of Parenting Advice (2017) – nonfiction, illustration by Copaken and Polumbo
  • Ladyparts (2021) – memoir

References[]

  1. ^ Jump up to: a b "Engagements; Deborah E. Copaken, Paul M. Kogan". The New York Times. April 18, 1993.
  2. ^ "Richard Copaken Weds Marjorie Ann Schwartz". The New York Times. July 17, 1963.
  3. ^ Herrup, Katharine (April 22, 2012). "Q&A; Deborah Copaken Kogan on 'The Red Book'". Forward.
  4. ^ Jump up to: a b c d "Deporah Copaken: Bio". Official website.
  5. ^ "Obituaries: Richard D. Copaken". The Kansas City Jewish Chronicle. Archived from the original on November 25, 2010. Retrieved July 30, 2010.
  6. ^ "Deporah Copaken: Photojournalism (List of selected works)". Official website.
  7. ^ "Deborah Copaken's profile". Harper Collins Speaker Bureau.
  8. ^ "Elle's Lettres: November". Elle. October 4, 2008.
  9. ^ Kogan, Deborah Copaken. "Stage Motherhood". The New Yorker. Retrieved 2021-06-12.
  10. ^ Kogan, Deborah Copaken (2007-04-15). "La Vie en Rose, the Takeout Version". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2021-06-12.
  11. ^ Jump up to: a b Clark, Nick (April 12, 2013). "Women's Prize for Fiction nominee Deborah Copaken Kogan lifts the lid on sexism in publishing and the arts". The Independent.
  12. ^ "ABCs of Adulthood". Chronicle Books. Retrieved 2021-06-12.
  13. ^ "The ABCs of Parenthood". Chronicle Books. Retrieved 2021-06-12.
  14. ^ "Deporah Copaken: Essays/Journalism (List of selected works)". Official website.
  15. ^ Sachs, Wendy (February 16, 2017). "How She Pivots To Relaunch Her Career". Forbes.
  16. ^ Avenue, Next. "How She Pivots To Relaunch Her Career". Forbes. Retrieved 2019-11-12.
  17. ^ "THE SILVER WOMEN INTERVIEW Meet Deborah Copaken: Author-Photographer- Journalist". 2019-10-30. Retrieved 2019-11-12.
  18. ^ "Deporah Copaken: TV Appearances/Video". Official website.
  19. ^ Jump up to: a b Copaken, Deborah (April 29, 2013). "My So-Called 'Post-Feminist' Life in Arts and Letters". The Nation.
  20. ^ Stoeffel, Kat (April 11, 2013). "Why Women's Books Have Terrible Titles". The Cut.
  21. ^ Dean, Michelle (April 17, 2013). "How to Win at the Women's Memoir Game". The Cut.
  22. ^ Copaken, Deborah (November 29, 2017). "How One Woman Found Healing in the Himalayas". Oprah.com.
  23. ^ Copaken, Deborah (July 31, 2018). "Three Children, Two Abortions". The Atlantic.
  24. ^ Copaken, Deborah (2015-11-26). "When Cupid Is a Prying Journalist". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2019-11-12.
  25. ^ Jones, Daniel (2019-10-18). "What She Learned From the One Who Got Away". The New York Times. ISSN 0362-4331. Retrieved 2019-11-12.
  26. ^ When Cupid Is a Prying Journalist, retrieved 2019-11-12
  27. ^ BWW News Desk. "Deborah Copaken and Tommy Siegel Featured On Song.Writer Podcast". BroadwayWorld.com. Retrieved 2019-11-12.
  28. ^ BWW News Desk. "Deborah Copaken and Tommy Siegel Featured On Song.Writer Podcast". BroadwayWorld.com. Retrieved 2021-06-12.
  29. ^ Copaken, Deborah (September 25, 2009). "The Night After the Serial Rapist Was Caught". Slate.
  30. ^ Copaken, Deborah (August 20, 2000). "Lives; King of the Mountain". The New York Times.
  31. ^ Jump up to: a b Copaken, Deborah (September 21, 2018). "My Rapist Apologized". The Atlantic. Retrieved 14 October 2018.
  32. ^ Copaken, Deborah (March 9, 2018). "How to Lose Your Job From Sexual Harassment in 33 Easy Steps". The Atlantic.
  33. ^ Gezari, Vanessa (January 14, 2001). "In Her Sights: A Photojournalist's Passionate Memoir". Chicago Tribune.
  34. ^ "ENGAGEMENTS; Deborah E. Copaken, Paul M. Kogan". 18 April 1993 – via NYTimes.com.
  35. ^ Rosenblum, Constance (January 28, 2010). "Tea and Uncertainty for a Busy Family". The New York Times.
  36. ^ Copaken, Deborah (12 February 2019). "The DIY Divorce" – via The Atlantic.

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