Wife guy

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In social media, a wife guy is a man whose fame is owed to the content he posts about his wife.[1]

History[]

The term was first coined for Internet memes about wives, notably a much-parodied “Email to my girlfriend’s husband”[2] circulating in 2016.[3] Robbie Tripp, an American whose Instagram post of himself with his wife went viral in 2017, was dubbed the "curvy wife guy" by the media, spawning many imitators.[1][4] The concept became more widely known in 2019, when several leading U.S. media outlets published articles about it.[5]

But the phenomenon has been traced back to before the term was coined. Many media outlets identify Dril, a Weird Twitter account, as pioneering the trope online.[1][3][5] Dril is noted for making posts relating various things his fictional wife does that make him seem pathetic, like withholding his inhaler or keeping him from purchasing a harp.[1] In a chapter of his book Dril Official "Mr. Ten Years" Anniversary Collection called "Wife", he details various ruses to thwart his ex-wife.[3]

Wife guys as a cultural phenomenon have predated social media as well. The New Yorker identifies post-women's liberation literary fiction as perpetuating it as a trope, with titles like The Time Traveler's Wife and The Zookeeper's Wife, books that were later made into films in the 21st century. The article identifies these titles and the meme itself as a being a form of erasure, where the nature of the wife guy erases the wife he derives his fame from.[4]

In 2013, a Reddit post of a garage tagged in red spray-paint with "Don't e-mail my wife!!!" emerged on the Internet. The ambiguity of the wife and what she may have thought about the situation was noted as being similar to the wife guy trope in retrospect.[5]

Assessments[]

The New York Times compared wife guys to incels, who define themselves by their inability to find a partner, in that wife guys define themselves by having found one, and expect to be congratulated for it. The paper also considered the "wife guy" phenomenon to reflect the changed status of marriage from societal default to personal achievement.[1] Similarly, MEL Magazine wrote that wife guys treated their wives as "legitimizing for a male web celebrity", and as "a measure of the husband’s influence".[6]

Examples[]

The following notable men have been described as wife guys:

References[]

  1. ^ a b c d e f Hess, Amanda (5 June 2019). "The Age of the Internet 'Wife Guy'". The New York Times. Retrieved 11 June 2019.
  2. ^ "Email to my girlfriend's husband". 6 August 2019 [5 April 2016]. Archived from the original on 10 October 2019.
  3. ^ a b c Whyman, Tom (14 May 2019). "Anatomy of the Wife Guy". The Outline. Retrieved 11 June 2019.
  4. ^ a b c Tolentino, Jia (5 June 2019). "Please, My Wife, She's Very Online". The New Yorker. Retrieved 11 June 2019.
  5. ^ a b c Schwedel, Heather (10 June 2019). "What Is the "Wife Guy"? At Least Five New Articles Have Answers for You!". Slate Magazine. Retrieved 11 June 2019.
  6. ^ a b Klee, Miles (10 May 2019). "The Never-Ending Saga of the Online Wife". MEL Magazine. Retrieved 11 June 2019.
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